Cyber-bullying is a
serious problem in our communities.
Though many people are unaware of
the severity of cyber-bullying, this
site is designed to inform you about
the problem, so that together we can
work together to stop it.
Cyber-bullying is when a child,
preteen or teenager bullies another
through the use of email, text
messages, etc. Cyber-bullying
compares, and well as contrasts with
traditional school yard bullying in
many ways. Below are some
generalizations of what may occur in
traditional bullying and
cyber-bullying.
Traditional
Bullying: When two young individuals
are face to face in a school yard
many things can happen:
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A child can
physically get hurt
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A child of a
larger and meaner demeanor can
be picking on a child of a much
smaller and harmless demeanor
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Traditional
bullying makes it much harder
for a defenseless child to
protect themselves against their
bully
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ยทSometimes
the bullying will occur in a
back hallway, a bathroom, or
other places where a teacher or
some authoritative figure cannot
see the action,therefore the
incident will keep occurring
because the victim has no way to
prove it is happening.
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The child doing
the bullying can get in trouble
with the teacher, principal and
parents if the action is caught
and will sometimes lead to
suspension or expulsion from
school
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Outside students
may gang up on or become
involved in the fight against a
classmate (causing the fighting
to be for example 3 against 1)
Cyber-bullying: When
two young individuals are in
cyber-space anything can
happen:
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Cyberspace allows
the smaller, defenseless
individual to gang up on the big
bully type kid
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Cyberspace allows
one to remain anonymous,
therefore it makes it much
harder for them to get in
trouble
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Because physical
fighting cannot occur, verbal
abuse often takes its place
which can sometimes be much more
painful
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If a bully
remains anonymous in cyberspace,
the fights can occur more often,
without being bullied in
meet-space.
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If the bully does
not remain anonymous, there can
be consequences online and also
on the playground. (ex: If the
puny kid is picking on the big
bully type online, the big bully
type may turn around and punch
the puny kid in the face at
school)
-
Cyber-bullying
can be taken to different levels
that traditional bullying
cannot.
(ex: the bully could
take a picture of the victims face
and paste it onto the picture of a
naked body and email that picture to
every classmate they know)
There are many other
examples of how Cyber-bullying and
traditional bullying compare and
contrast, but hopefully that will
give you a peek at where this web
essay will take you. Cyber-bullying
is very dangerous because you never
know (a) just how far the bully will
go to make the other person feel
horrible about themselves and (b)
the mental state of the victim.
There have been very unfortunate
instances where young teens have
committed suicide over something
that another individual said to them
over the internet. In the follow
pages, you will learn what
cyber-bullying is, some of the facts
about cyber-bullying as well as
research done by sociologist on
cyber-bullying. You will also learn
the best ways to prevent
cyber-bullying and how to get
involved. You will also be provided
with external links to the sources
that are most helpful to learn even
more about this growing problem.